Professional Practice & Standards

Privacy & Ethics

Your trust matters, and it is protected with care, clarity, and professionalism.

At The Embassy of Friendship, your privacy, dignity, and emotional safety are central to the therapeutic relationship. Counselling is a place where you should feel safe to speak openly, explore deeply, and be met without judgement. This page outlines how your information is protected, how sessions are conducted, and the ethical principles guiding my practice.

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Legislation

NZ Privacy Act 2020

Counselling Code

NZAC Code of Ethics

Psychology Standards

NZAPP Standards

Protected Sanctuary

Confidentiality & Privacy

Everything you share in counselling is treated with strict confidentiality.

Confidentiality applies across all aspects of care:

All conversations held during sessions
Written clinical and session notes
Emails, text messages, and phone calls
Online encrypted video sessions
Any personal background information you provide
Exceptions to Confidentiality

There are rare and specific legal or safety circumstances where confidentiality must be breached to ensure safety:

  • Serious, imminent risk of harm to yourself or someone else
  • Risk of abuse or neglect involving a child or vulnerable person
  • Legal obligations, such as a formal subpoena or court order

Whenever possible and safe to do so, I will always discuss this with you first before taking action.

Code of Ethics

Ethical Practice & Professional Standards

My work is guided by the ethical frameworks of the New Zealand Association of Counsellors (NZAC), the New Zealand Association of Positive Psychology (NZAPP), and international best-practice clinical standards.

Respect, Dignity & Non-Judgement

You are accepted unconditionally, exactly as you are, without judgement or bias.

Clear Professional Boundaries

Transparent agreements, ethical conduct, and healthy therapeutic boundaries at all times.

Cultural Sensitivity & Awareness

Attuned respect for your unique heritage, identity, worldview, and lived experience.

Trauma-Informed Pacing

Gentle, mindful regulation that respects your nervous system, capacity, and readiness.

Fee & Schedule Transparency

Honest, upfront communication about rates, appointment times, and cancellation policies.

Ongoing Supervision & Development

Regular clinical supervision and continuous education to ensure the highest standard of care.

Inclusive Practice

Cultural Respect & Intercultural Sensitivity

I warmly welcome clients from all cultural, spiritual, and social backgrounds.

My university studies in intercultural education, psychology, and sociology, combined with my own lived experience of immigrating to New Zealand 17 years ago, give me a deep and empathetic understanding of:

Cultural transitions
Identity shifts
Belonging & dislocation
Migration stress
Living between cultures
Cross-cultural relationships
I work respectfully with Māori, Pasifika, European, Asian, and international clients, both locally in Whitianga and through online video sessions.
Global Reach

Online Sessions & International Clients

Online counselling is available for clients across New Zealand and worldwide. Over the years, I have supported clients in Canada, the UK, the USA, Germany, France, Switzerland, and Austria.

It is not my main focus, but it is possible, and often deeply meaningful for people who feel drawn to my way of working.

Standard parity: Online sessions adhere strictly to the same privacy, ethical, and clinical standards as in-person therapy.View full Online Therapy Guidelines →
Information Security

Data Protection & Record Keeping

  • Session notes are stored securely, encrypted, and kept strictly private.
  • No information is ever shared with third parties without your explicit consent.
  • Digital communications (email & text) are kept minimal and professional.
  • Online video sessions use secure, encrypted platforms.
No recordings: I do not record sessions unless explicitly agreed upon in advance for a specific therapeutic purpose.
Client Autonomy

Your Rights as a Client

You have the fundamental right to:

  • 1
    Be treated with unfailing respect, dignity, and compassion
  • 2
    Ask questions about the therapeutic process at any time
  • 3
    Request changes to how we work or the pacing of sessions
  • 4
    Pause, review, or end therapy at any time without penalty
  • 5
    Receive clear, upfront information about fees and scheduling
  • 6
    Expect safe, ethical, and professionally grounded care
Therapeutic Promise

My Commitment to You

I am committed to creating a therapeutic relationship that is:

Safe & Protected
Respectful & Kind
Strictly Confidential
Culturally Attuned
Trauma-Informed
Empowering & Insightful
Professionally Grounded
Unhurried & Present

"You will be met with warmth, steadiness, and, when needed, clarity and challenge to support your growth."

Open Dialogue

Questions or Concerns?

If you have any questions about privacy, ethics, or how your information is handled, you are always welcome to ask at any time. Your comfort and clarity matter.

Send a Confidential Enquiry